Listen to me closely………Relationship
training by Pip Unwin……….
What is relationship training?
It’s all about the relationship we have with our horses
and the one we want to have with out horses which in turn
move into the rest of our lives as to understand about relationship
training we have to understand that everyone of our actions
effect the world around us, which means we have to have a
certain level of awareness before we can truly communicate
with horses.
Horses are great teachers; I have been a pupil for. Over
35yrs through me listening to the horses, I am able to pass
on their teaching to other people that want to learn to listen,
through my teaching I continue to learn, I feel very honoured
to be given the chance to spend my time with these noble beasts.
In our technologically advanced world we tend to believe
only what we can see, prove and explain, so we view animal
- human communication as impossible or ludicrous. Many riders
experience their horses doing exactly what the rider is thinking
without any physical effect or verbal command, this is what
I work on so horse and rider become one, When someone first
comes to me they are two separate beings, with time and quite
gentle learning they become one. I always work with the rider
as well as the horse. I have some riders that come to me and
say that they do not have a problem they just want to improve
their riding which is fine but there always seems to be something,
their horse spook, their horse does not stand still while
they tack up, horse is not happy loading, horse is a bully
if not to them to other horses, etc etc etc……..
I began to realize that this was a communication problem,
the rider was not communicating in a way the horse could understand
or it is because your horse is trying to tell you something
in the only way he knows how (in his behaviour), we have to
understand that a horse is a horse a flight animal and we
are human a predator, it is up to us to learn to understand
how a horse thinks and reacts and relate to others and his
surroundings. This way the horse becomes predictable not unpredictable.
It’s all about bringing the relationship into balance.
Giving the horse what he wants and needs will give you what
you want and need out of the relationship. Relationship training
is not just about teaching it’s an attitude and belief
system, it will release the spirit in you and your horse,
when this happens it is truly a magical experience. Come and
see and experience it for your self……………….
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